How To Order Bridesmaid Dress When Pregnant

Being a bridesmaid is an honor, but navigating the role while pregnant presents unique challenges, especially when it comes to ordering your dress. Here’s how to approach it:
Communicate Early and Often
The moment you know you're pregnant, inform the bride. This allows her to factor your changing body into her vision for the bridal party. Share your due date so she has a clear timeline.
Discuss Dress Options with the Bride
Openly discuss dress options with the bride. She may have a specific style in mind, but being aware of your situation, she might be open to suggestions. Consider these options:
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- Maternity Bridesmaid Dresses: Some brands offer specifically designed maternity bridesmaid dresses. These are often made with stretchy fabrics and adjustable features.
- Empire Waist Styles: Dresses with an empire waistline naturally accommodate a growing bump. The flowing skirt provides room and comfort.
- A-Line Silhouettes: A-line dresses are generally flattering and offer more room in the skirt than other styles.
- Custom Dresses: Consider having a dress custom-made. This allows for precise measurements and adjustments as your pregnancy progresses.
- Separates: A skirt and top combination can offer flexibility and easier adjustments. Choose fabrics that stretch and coordinate well.
Sizing Strategies for a Growing Bump
Predicting your size months in advance is tricky. Use these strategies for a better fit:
Consult Size Charts, Carefully
Don't rely on your pre-pregnancy size. Measure your bust, waist, and hips. Compare these measurements to the dressmaker's or retailer's size chart. Pay close attention to the bust and waist measurements. If you're between sizes, it's generally safer to size up. Many brands have different size charts; always refer to the specific brand's chart.
Consider the Estimated Delivery Date
Factor in your estimated delivery date and how far along you'll be when you need to wear the dress. If you'll be in your third trimester, you'll need significantly more room than if you'll be in your second. Consider the time frame between ordering and the wedding date. Your body will likely change during this period.
Order a Size Up (or Two)
It’s almost always easier to take a dress in than to let it out. Ordering a size or two larger than your current measurements provides extra fabric for alterations. Talk to a seamstress about the best approach for your specific dress style and pregnancy stage.

Prioritize Adjustable Features
Look for dresses with adjustable straps, a stretchy waistband, or a lace-up back. These features allow for greater flexibility as your body changes. Elastic panels in the sides or back can also provide extra give.
Fabric Considerations: Comfort is Key
Pregnancy can bring increased sensitivity to fabrics and temperature fluctuations. Choose fabrics that are comfortable and breathable:
Opt for Natural Fibers
Natural fibers like cotton, linen, and silk are breathable and less likely to irritate sensitive skin. Avoid fabrics like polyester that can trap heat and moisture.
Consider Stretch Fabrics
Fabrics with some stretch, such as jersey or fabrics with a small percentage of Spandex or Lycra, offer greater comfort and accommodate your changing shape.

Avoid Heavy or Restrictive Fabrics
Heavy fabrics like velvet or stiff brocade can be uncomfortable, especially in warmer weather. Choose lighter, more flowing fabrics.
Alterations: Plan Ahead and Communicate
Alterations are almost inevitable when ordering a bridesmaid dress while pregnant. Factor in the cost and timing of alterations.
Find a Skilled Seamstress
Find a seamstress who has experience with bridesmaid dresses and maternity alterations. Ask for recommendations from friends or family. A good seamstress can work wonders with a dress that needs adjustments.
Schedule Alterations Close to the Wedding Date
Schedule your final alterations as close to the wedding date as possible. This allows for the most accurate fit. Be prepared for multiple fittings as your body continues to change.

Communicate Your Needs Clearly
Clearly communicate your needs and concerns to the seamstress. Explain how far along you'll be, any comfort issues you're experiencing, and the desired fit. Don’t be afraid to speak up if something doesn’t feel right.
Consider Postpartum Adjustments
If the wedding is shortly after your due date, consider how your body might change postpartum. You may need further alterations to accommodate your postpartum figure.
Practical Tips for a Comfortable Day
Beyond the dress, consider these tips for staying comfortable throughout the wedding day:
Choose Comfortable Shoes
Comfortable shoes are essential. Opt for shoes with good support and a low heel or flats. Consider bringing a backup pair of comfortable shoes.

Stay Hydrated and Nourished
Drink plenty of water and eat regularly throughout the day. Pack healthy snacks to keep your energy levels up.
Take Breaks When Needed
Don't hesitate to take breaks and rest when needed. Find a quiet place to sit down and relax for a few minutes.
Communicate Your Needs
Let the bride and other members of the bridal party know if you're feeling uncomfortable or need assistance. They will likely be understanding and supportive.
Ordering Bridesmaid Dress: Pregnancy Checklist
Use this checklist to guide your dress-ordering process:
- Inform the bride of your pregnancy and due date.
- Discuss dress options with the bride and explore maternity-friendly styles.
- Take accurate measurements and consult the dressmaker's size chart.
- Order a size up to allow for alterations.
- Choose comfortable and breathable fabrics.
- Find a skilled seamstress with experience in maternity alterations.
- Schedule alterations close to the wedding date.
- Plan for comfortable shoes, hydration, and rest on the wedding day.
