Okay, let's be real for a sec. Sometimes, friendships need a little… shake-up. You know?
I'm talking about that moment when you realize your bestie is clinging to some seriously outdated life choices. And you, well, you've evolved. Or at least, you're trying to.
The Great Transformation
Picture this: I go kuro-gyaru. Bam! Tanned skin, bleached hair, the works. My inner circle? Let's just say they weren't exactly thrilled.
Especially one particular best friend. We'll call her… Emily. Emily, bless her heart, was very invested in my "natural beauty."
Suddenly, I'm all about fake lashes and she's giving me lectures on sun damage. Awkward!
The Unspoken Divide
Here's the thing. My kuro-gyaru era? It was about more than just looks. It was about confidence. About trying new things. About, dare I say, fun.
And Emily? She seemed stuck. Same coffee shop, same clothes, same… complaints.
Is it bad that I started feeling like my newfound sparkle was making her uncomfortable?
"Unpopular" Opinion Time
Okay, here's the unpopular opinion: sometimes, diverging paths are necessary. Even in friendships.
Staying the same for the sake of someone else? That just feels… wrong.
It's like, I'm over here living my best life, rocking neon nails, and she's side-eyeing me like I joined a cult.
The Glow-Up Glow-Up
Look, I get it. Change is scary. Especially when your best friend suddenly looks like she walked out of a Shibuya street style blog.
But maybe, just maybe, instead of judging, she could have seen it as… inspiration? A chance to break out of her own shell?
I even offered to help her pick out some cute platforms! Crickets.
Friendship Fallout?
So, did we have a dramatic falling out? Not exactly. But things definitely shifted.
Our conversations became… strained. Small talk about the weather. Avoiding the elephant in the room: my newly bronzed skin and her… disappointment.
I started hanging out with people who embraced my kuro-gyaru energy. People who didn't make me feel like I needed to apologize for being myself.
The Inevitable Truth
The truth is, not all friendships are meant to last forever. Some are for a season. Some are for a reason.
And some friendships, well, they just can't survive a kuro-gyaru transformation.
I still care about Emily. I really do. But I also care about my own happiness.
No Regrets (Mostly)
Do I regret going kuro-gyaru? Absolutely not! It was a fun, empowering experience.
Do I regret the distance it created between me and Emily? Maybe a little. But I also believe that everything happens for a reason.
Maybe one day, she'll appreciate my daring style. Maybe not. Either way, I'm gonna keep rocking my tan and glitter eyeshadow.
A Final Thought
So, if you're thinking about embracing a new style, a new hobby, a new *you*? Do it! Don't let anyone hold you back.
And if your friends can't handle it? Well, maybe it's time to find some new friends. The kind who appreciate your glow-up, inside and out.
Besides, haven't you heard? Gyaru is forever! (Just kidding… mostly.)
