That Is A Dub I Don't Need Her

Okay, let's be honest. We've all been there. Heard that song, seen that scene, thought that thought.

That thought? "That is a dub. I don't need her."

Unpopular Opinion Alert!

Brace yourselves, folks. I'm about to say something that might ruffle some feathers. Maybe even cause a minor internet riot.

But hey, someone's gotta say it. And that someone is... me!

The "Dub" Definition (My Version)

What's a "dub," you ask? In this highly scientific, totally-made-up definition, it's a situation. Usually romantic. Always avoidable.

It's a scenario where, despite what your heart (or certain friends) might be telling you, walking away is the *only* winning move.

Think of it like this: a relationship audition where the performer forgets their lines. Repeatedly.

Red Flags are Basically Banners

We've all seen the red flags. They're waving furiously. Sometimes they're even neon and flashing!

Ignoring them is like driving through a parade while blindfolded. Fun for a minute, disastrous long-term.

So, when those flags are screaming, it’s time to politely decline the invitation to the circus.

The "Need" Illusion

Ah, the "need." That pesky emotion that convinces us we can't live without someone. Even when they're actively making us question our sanity.

Spoiler alert: you can. You absolutely can.

In fact, you'll probably thrive. Like a houseplant finally getting sunlight after years in a dark closet.

Self-Preservation is Not Selfish

Let me repeat that. Self-preservation. Not selfish.

Taking care of your own emotional well-being is essential. It's like putting on your own oxygen mask before assisting others. Except, in this case, the "others" are the ones causing the oxygen shortage.

Don't feel guilty for prioritizing your happiness. Especially when someone is actively trying to deplete it.

Signs You Might Need a "Dub"

Okay, quick checklist. Answer honestly:

Do you spend more time explaining their behavior to your friends than actually enjoying their company?
Does your stomach clench every time your phone rings?
Have you considered joining a monastery to escape the drama?

If you answered "yes" to any of these, congratulations! You're a prime candidate for a strategic "dub."

The Aftermath

Yes, it might sting at first. Like ripping off a band-aid. Or accidentally sitting on a LEGO.

But trust me. The short-term pain is nothing compared to the long-term agony of staying in a situation that's draining your soul.

Soon, you'll be dancing to your own beat. Eating ice cream straight from the tub. Binge-watching your favorite show. All without the constant anxiety of someone else's baggage weighing you down.